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Dawn & Frank

Saturday, October 10, 2026
The Inn at Taughannock Falls  ·  Trumansburg, New York
Wedding Weekend  ·  October 9–11, 2026
The engagement ring in a shell, Curaçao
Our Story

First by sea, then by land

Frank has spent most of his life underwater — diving is where he's most himself. Dawn caught the bug too, earning her own certification in August 2024, and from there the two of them logged dive after dive together, from Florida to Thailand to Hawaii.

In April 2025, they traveled to Curaçao to celebrate Frank's birthday. On the second dive of their first day, Frank was doing what he always does — pointing out interesting finds along the reef — when he handed Dawn an unusually intriguing shell. Hidden inside was a diamond ring.

Forty feet underwater, there's no way to say yes out loud, but there was no mistaking her answer. Back on the boat, Frank made sure of it in words. The next evening, over dinner in a cabana above the water, he asked her all over again — this time on one knee. (For anyone wondering: the ring from the dive was a decoy. The real one made its debut on land.)

— Dawn & Frank
The Weekend

Wedding Weekend Schedule

Join us for a full weekend in the Finger Lakes, from welcome drinks to farewell brunch.

The Inn at Taughannock Falls
The Inn at Taughannock Falls
Friday, October 9
5:00 PM–8:30 PM
Welcome Dinner
Ithaca Beer Company, Ithaca, NY
We'll start outside with drinks in hand, then move in for a seated dinner as the sun sets at 6:30 PM.
Saturday, October 10
4:30 PM–11:00 PM
Ceremony & Reception
Inn at Taughannock Falls · Trumansburg, NY
Sunday, October 11
9:00 AM–12:00 PM
Farewell Brunch
Ithaca Yacht Club, Ithaca, NY
Grab-and-go options available, plus a full sit-down brunch — come and go on your own schedule.
Getting There

Travel & Accommodations

The Inn sits nine miles from Ithaca, at the edge of Cayuga Lake and the Finger Lakes wine trail.

Flights

Ithaca Tompkins Regional (ITH)

The closest airport to the wedding destination, although it's a local airport — check to see what options there are flying in.

Syracuse Hancock International (SYR)

A larger airport, likely with more flight options and possibly cheaper fares. About a 90-minute drive to Ithaca.

NYC (JFK, LGA, EWR) or Boston (BOS)

It's a 4–5 hour drive from the NYC airports, longer from Boston. Rochester and Albany are smaller alternatives, but Syracuse is probably the best bet if you're not flying directly into Ithaca.

Where to Stay

The Hotel Ithaca

222 South Cayuga Street
Ithaca, NY 14850
Book Room Block

The Statler Hotel at Cornell University

130 Statler Drive
Ithaca, NY 14853
Code: PANDOLFEHARPER26
Book Room Block

Ithaca Marriott Downtown on the Commons

120 South Aurora Street
Ithaca, NY 14850
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Canopy by Hilton Ithaca Downtown

324 East State Street
Ithaca, NY 14850
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Hilton Garden Inn Ithaca

130 East Seneca Street
Ithaca, NY 14850
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Fairfield by Marriott Inn & Suites Ithaca

359 Elmira Road
Ithaca, NY 14850
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Hampton Inn Ithaca

337 Elmira Road
Ithaca, NY 14850
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Argos Inn — Ithaca's Boutique Hotel

408 East State Street
Ithaca, NY 14850
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Airbnb

Homes and rentals throughout the Ithaca area
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While You're Here

As the locals say — Ithaca is Gorges.

Taughannock Falls

Walk to the base of one of the tallest waterfalls in the eastern U.S., right next to the venue.

The Gorge Trail is an easy, flat 1.5-mile round trip straight to the base. For a bigger workout and overlook views, the North and South Rim Trails climb along the gorge's edge — just note there are stairs. If you'd rather skip the hike altogether, there's also an overlook you can drive right up to.

Cayuga Wine Trail

Extend the trip with a stop at one of the many wineries along the lake.

Downtown Ithaca

The Commons, Cornell campus, and the Ithaca Farmers Market are all worth a wander.

Watkins Glen State Park

A short drive to one of the most photographed gorges in the country — 19 waterfalls along a stone-carved trail.

Buttermilk Falls

Another stunning Ithaca gorge, with swimming holes at the base in warmer weather.

Cornell University

Wander the campus, take in the gorge views, and stop by the botanic gardens if you have time.

What to Wear

Dress Code, Day by Day

Three days, three vibes — here's the game plan for each.

Friday

Dressy Casual

Upscale-restaurant chic

We're kicking off the weekend at a local brewery — cocktails outside, dinner in. Think somewhere between Sunday best and relaxed weekend.

Saturday

Black Tie Optional

Elevated elegance, outdoor sensibility

Many guests will be in tuxedo-level formal attire. A dark suit is a great alternative — just steer clear of light-colored suits. For women, tea- or long-length dresses are encouraged.

Footwear: the ceremony itself is short and outdoors on grass, but the rest of the evening is not — block heels, wedges, and dressy flats are a safe bet.

After dark: it cools off fast once the sun's down, so a shawl, pashmina, or light blazer will earn its keep.

Sunday

Nautical Chic

Refined coastal, relaxed seaside

We're closing out the weekend lakeside at the Yacht Club — think yacht-club casual, easy and breezy.

A note for guests: ivory and white are reserved for the bride.
With Gratitude

Registry

Your presence is the only gift we truly need. For those who'd like to give more, a few options are below.

Bloomingdale's

A few favorites to round out our home.

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Williams-Sonoma

Kitchen and entertaining favorites.

View Registry
Good to Know

Frequently Asked Questions

Is the ceremony indoors or outdoors?

Our sunset ceremony will take place outdoors at the Inn, with the reception to follow under a tent.

Are children welcome?

This is an adults-only celebration — we hope you understand and can arrange care for the little ones.

Can I bring a plus one?

Please check your invitation for names — we've done our best to note who's included, and can accommodate requests where possible.

Is there parking on site?

Yes, complimentary parking is available at the Inn. We'll also offer a complimentary shuttle from downtown Ithaca before the ceremony, with a return trip at the end of the night — exact timing to follow.

By when should I RSVP?

Formal invitations are in the mail — please respond by August 15th.

Whom should I contact with questions?

For questions not answered here, feel free to reach out to Frank at frankpandolfe@gmail.com.